

Ketamine Assisted Couple Therapy
Ketamine assisted therapy (KAP ) is a cutting edge treatment for relational and individual challenges.
Ketamine temporarily increases neuroplasticity and brain connectivity, which allows the mind to move beyond habitual patterns of thought and emotional response.
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Our approach utilises evidence base couple therapy treatment with emerging research on psychedelic assisted therapy.​
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We offer an option of a standard weekly approach or a weekend intensive.
Why Ketamine in Couple Therapy
Couples therapy works by helping partners understand the relational cycle they become caught in —
the repeating pattern of reactions, emotions, and misunderstandings that gradually erodes safety and connection.
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While insight into the pattern is important, it can often take time for partners to truly feel and embody change.
Ketamine supports this process by temporarily altering the brain’s habitual patterns of thought and emotional response
and increasing emotional openness and cognitive flexibility.
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This allows partners to:
• experience each other with greater empathy and curiosity
• step outside rigid interpretations of the relationship
• access vulnerable emotions beneath defensive reactions
• interrupt the automatic relational cycle
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In this way, ketamine is not the therapy itself — it is a catalyst that helps the therapeutic process unfold
more deeply and rapidly.
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How does Ketamine support the therapeutic process ?
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In this work we focus on three core areas where relational change becomes possible: emotions, cognition, behaviour.
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Emotional Shifts
Many relational conflicts are driven by emotions that feel overwhelming or difficult to tolerate.
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Ketamine-assisted therapy can help partners:
• increase empathy toward one another
• access deeper emotional vulnerability
• build tolerance for difficult feelings
• reduce emotional defensiveness
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This creates the conditions for partners to meet one another with greater openness rather than protection.
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Cognitive Flexibility
Couples often become locked into rigid stories about one another:
"You never listen."
"Nothing I do is good enough."
"You don’t care about me."
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Ketamine can help loosen these rigid interpretations, allowing partners to:
• develop more flexible perspectives
• soften unrealistic expectations of one another
• see the relationship dynamic more clearly
• recognise how their own perceptions shape the cycle
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This flexibility makes new relational possibilities visible.
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Behavioural Change
Insight alone does not change relationships — new behaviours do.
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During integration and therapy work, we support couples to:
• shift from hostile or defensive communication toward vulnerable expression
• reduce avoidance and withdrawal
• respond to each other with empathy rather than reactivity
• practice new ways of interacting that interrupt the relational cycle
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These behavioural shifts allow the relationship to move out of survival patterns and into deeper connection.​​
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A Journey Back to Each Other
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This work is not about fixing what is broken, but about remembering who you are beneath the stories, defences, and wounds. Ketamine-assisted therapy offers a profound opportunity to meet each other in that place – where love is unguarded, presence is natural, and healing is possible.
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Ready to Explore Together?
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If you feel called to experience ketamine-assisted couple therapy, we invite you to reach out for a consultation. Together, we can create a safe, intentional space to support your relationship’s healing and growth.
How Sessions Work​
Weekly sessions
(as described below)
Ketamine-Assisted Couple Therapy sessions are carefully designed to create a safe and sacred space for healing. There are usually between 1-4 ketamine dosing sessions. This depends on what you are working on and what your hopes for therapy are. The dosing sessions are integrated with the structure of couple therapy. There are typically 4/5 peparation/integration sessions on each side on the dosing session.
The dosing session can either be offered at the clinic in London or at your home. The preparation/integration sessions
take place on line.
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Weekend Intensive​
The intensive happens over two days. First day lasts about 7h. We engage in assessment, feedback , intention setting, dosing session and gentle integration. Further integration happens the next day .
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​Medical assessment
I have collaborated with well established Ketamine Clinic in London and an expert in this field Dr Wayne Kampers to ensure you will receive a thorough and robust medical support.
Before we agree on proceedeing with therapy (in either format), you will engage with Dr Kampers for an Initial Assessment and perscription of ketamine. Following the therapeutic process, there will be a review session with Dr Kampers.

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Preparation (online)
We meet to understand your relationship history, your attachment histories, your relational dynamic - your cycle/pattern. We will formulate the desired changes and clarify your shared intentions.
Sessions are 90 min.
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Ketamine Assisted Journey (in person)
Ketamine will be administered in a therapeutic dose agreed with your medical prescriber. The dosing session is an inward experience, usually with eyeshades on and specially curated music. Some gentle integration is offered at the end of the journey.
The whole experience typically lasts about 3h.
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Integration sessions (online )
In follow-up sessions, we weave insights into daily life, supporting you both in embodying the changes and communicating with greater clarity, tenderness, and understanding.
Sessions are 90 min.